Warning: Trick Question Police Will Ask if You’re Stopped in NJ

🔺  Always remember, when stopped by police, they have all the leverage

🔺  The side of the road is not the place to litigate your case

🔺  A little respect and restraint may be the difference between getting a ticket or driving away with a warning

If you've ever been pulled over by the police, you probably know it can feel pretty intimidating.

Most of the time, you likely have an idea of why you're being stopped, and as the officer walks up to your car, your mind may start racing, trying to think of an excuse.

When the officer asks, “Do you know why I pulled you over?” it might seem like a simple question.

However, how you respond can make all the difference between receiving a ticket or getting off with just a warning.

Based on my personal experience, it’s important to keep your cool.

No matter how frustrating it might be to get pulled over, it’s not the right time to argue—especially not on the side of the road.

Trust me, you’ll never win a roadside debate with the police.

By the way, you may have a valid argument.

However, you should save that for a date in court- if it gets that far.

I’m not one to overshare when pulled over.

If an officer asks if I know why I was stopped, I usually respond with, "No sir."

They might also ask if you were aware of your speed, and it’s best to keep your answer simple, like a quick "Yes sir" without getting into specifics.

One of the hardest things is swallowing your pride and not offering up unnecessary details.

For example, if the officer says, "I clocked you going 85 in a 75 zone," it’s best to just acknowledge it with something like, "Hmm" rather than trying to argue or justify your actions.

Human nature makes that the hardest part of this exercise.

The side of the road may be the absolute worst place for you to argue.

Remember, the goal is to avoid saying anything that could be used against you in court.

If you’re in California, there’s a new law requiring officers to tell you immediately why you’ve been stopped, which could help make things clearer.

Lastly, it’s essential to remember that police officers have a tough job.

They never know who or what they’re dealing with when they approach your car.

A little respect and patience can go a long way in making the interaction smoother for everyone involved.